Comments on: Mother's Milk: Nurturing a Breastfeeding Mother, or Nursing for New Dads

By: Angelina

Angelina — Sat, 09 Aug 2008 01:49:00 +0000

YES! Just what a new Papa needs… truthfully nursing is the most fulfilling job my body ever underwent, however it can be very difficult to get other things accomplished when so much time is spent nourishing and nurturing a growing body. Mama’s really need help with all the other activities they do, particularly during the first few months.
Good article Derek.

By: Mother’s Milk: Why Breastfeeding Can Be Frustrating for Stay-At-Home Dads : Eco Child’s Play

Thu, 07 Aug 2008 15:07:03 +0000

[...] One way to distract yourself in this situation is to follow some of fellow Eco Child’s Play dad Derek Markham’s tips for helping your partner to have a comfortable breastfeeding experience. [...]

By: Derek Markham

Derek Markham — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 14:01:35 +0000

I’d love to say it comes naturally, but alas…

After several babies, though, I’ve learned a little.

Thanks for reading, and thank you for your comments!

By: Amy Jussel

Amy Jussel — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 04:13:42 +0000

Wow, Derek…As one who received nada on ANY of these fronts (in fact, he traveled constantly and I was a lone wolf mama without family nearby!) I’d just like to hear how many marriage proposals you get from wide-eyed weary wives, appreciative of your consideration!

You’re a tribute to manhood and an aspirational model for all dads (and daddy bloggers!) out there intent on Shaping Youth with more balance in their lives.

And mamas out there? You lucky wives of these sorts? Remember, “Silent gratitude isn’t much use to anyone.” ~G.B. Stern

Praise often and sincerely…Thanks for the inspirational post.

By: Susie Kim

Susie Kim — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 02:17:32 +0000

Mmmm Derek, you are awesome!!! But my EC comes really darn close.
In my breastfeeding class, the LC said the success of breastfeeding mothers depends on partner’s support. I am glad that there’s progressive fathers like you (and EC of course) to lead the way. Thanks so much.

By: Stephanie - Green SAHM

Stephanie - Green SAHM — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 00:26:27 +0000

Great points. I’ll have to email this to my husband when the new baby comes in January or February… especially the bit about taking the older kids out.

By: Skye

Skye — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 23:20:29 +0000

Or if she’s completely and utterly sick of being touched because she has an infant attached to her body for hours at a time, don’t touch her!

Water and snacks, though, YES! Often. Hourly, even.

By: Mrs. Domino

Mrs. Domino — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 16:07:30 +0000

I haven’t nursed for almost a year now and your blog really made me miss those times. I didn’t particularly enjoy the actual breastfeeding part, but knowing that I was doing the absolute best thing for my baby, whether I enjoyed it or not, was a good feeling! Such a privilege that only mommies know. Thanks for bringing back such good memories!

By: rozagain

rozagain — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 15:05:41 +0000

Damn. Must be nice. I can’t even IMAGINE any of that. I never felt more alone and on my own than I did after our child was born.

By: Jennifer Lance

Jennifer Lance — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:35:41 +0000

Derek, I think you may just be the perfect dad and partner!