I grew up near a Dunkin Donuts store, and I can still imagine the smell and taste of childhood. There was even a pond behind the store where we would catch tadpoles. Later, my memories of Dunkin Donuts involved dumpster diving for discarded food (my short, part-time stint as a freegan). It’s been twenty-five years since I’ve been inside a Dunkin Donuts. It’s a good thing I never tried breastfeeding in one, which may be more hazardous than actually eating their food.
Staff at a New Jersey Dunkin Donuts recently called the police on two breastfeeding moms.
It finally happened. A friend and I were just told not to breastfeed in Dunkin Donuts because there are “other people there”. I was going to leave and just write a letter to Dunkin Donuts headquarters suggesting that they educate their employees better. The police were called, though.
The mom says she and her friend just cleaned up and left the Dunkin’ Donuts, but not before her friend was told by the police to “shut up” in front of her children.
For its part, Dunkin’ Donuts posted the following statement on its Facebook page:
We have looked into the matter concerning 2 moms at a DD store in NJ & have confirmed an employee was responding to another customer’s complaint that wasn’t related to breastfeeding. None of the DD employees challenged the guests about breastfeeding & all DDs must comply w/ local, state & federal laws w/ regard to nursing mothers. Our top priority is always to provide an excellent experience for our guests.
Despite the outrage any breastfeeding mom feels about hearing another mom asked to leave a public place for feeding her baby as nature intended (let alone involving the police), there may be more to this story.
What was the customer complaint really about? Globe and Mail reports the mother changed her baby’s diaper at the table.
While we’d probably lose our appetite for that Boston cream donut if we watched someone remove a soiled diaper from a squirming baby on a restaurant table, we do understand the predicament the mom in question was facing. She explains that there was no change table in the establishment’s restroom…
Did this mom go too far by changing her child’s diaper in the middle of a restaurant? How would you react if you saw a parent doing this while you sipped your double-double in the next booth?
I certainly agree there are sanitation concerns in this situation. What if the child had rotavirus, for example? I do think the Dunkin Donuts staff could have handled the situation better by simply asking the mother to change her child’s diaper in another location, as well as remedy the situation by putting changing tables in their bathrooms. Calling the police seems a bit extreme.
Personally, I never use the diaper changing caddies in public restrooms (did I mention I fear rotavirus?). I would much rather change my child’s diaper in the car on a receiving blanket. It is not that I want privacy, I just fear germs in public bathrooms in general.
Were the police called over the diaper changing incident or was it really breastfeeding? Jezebel reports:
One of the moms, Sarah Sprague, clears things up slightly on Facebook, where she writes that police and Dunkin Donuts are now claiming her offense was changing a baby’s diaper “on the table.” She admits to doing so “at the table,” though not on its surface (here we get into some serious diaper semantics), but says nobody talked to her about it until after the fact, and all that was addressed at the time was breastfeeding.
Whatever the cause of the police report, it’s best to steer clear of Dunkin Donuts for your health anyways.