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PORCHLIGHT:
A Family’s Weekly Guide to Reducing Your Impact on the Planet at Home
Written by Sonya K. Hess
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Child-Raising: Three ways to lighten your impact on the planet AND economize
Children have become a fad: grocery store tabloids map celebrity-babies’ every move, note who is riding in which tricked-out stroller, and remind us where so-and-so got her baby’s $300 shoes. But fads mean money spent on a constantly changing environment of style, one that only encourages over-consumption and overuse of already precious resources. Want to bring child rearing back to earth, and save money in the process?
1. SHOP SECOND-HAND
For some parents thrift stores may be a budget necessity, but regardless of your wallet, shopping thrift stores for kids has endless benefits. First, remind yourself that your child, at least for the first two years of her life, could care less what she wears, as long as it’s weather-appropriate. Reminding yourself of this can help you to care less too. Second, children’s second-hand clothes are rarely worn out or even stained, thanks to kids’ rapid growth, so your bargains are going to look and wear like practically new clothes. Someone is out there paying full dollar for those clothes, and you stand only to benefit. Third, most small- to mid-sized cities, to say nothing of metropolitan areas, are exploding with consignment shops for children’s clothes. These stores range from mega-cheap to highly selective, so whatever your style and budget, you can find a deal. And finally, buying second hand will really add up: if the average new outfit for a child at a large chain store runs about $25 and you find it for $10, you’ve saved $15 per outfit which can easily mean close to $100 for a week’s worth of clothes. Plus, with the resale options many consignment stores offer, your kids’ outgrown clothes can go right out the door again and earn you credit or cash in the end.
2. — USE CLOTH DIAPERS
It’s funny how many people I’ve talked to say something like this: “I know I should try cloth diapers just like I should try to recycle and use less gas and minimize my waste, but it just sounds so hard.” Well, I’m about to show you that it isn’t—at least no harder than trudging out to the grocery store late at night for another package of disposables because you discover you’ve used the last one.
The Economics of Cloth Diapers
If no other reason convinces you, saving money should be a no-brainer. The average child will be in diapers for over two years, and a family’s monthly disposable diaper spending averages $35-55, depending on brands bought, as well as extra supplies (wipes, etc.). Sure, you make an initial investment with cloth diapers that can run anywhere from $150-$300, but even at the high end you’ve easily spent less in total than you would on even six or seven months of disposable diapers. And if you chose to have more than one child, remember that that investment will last you through all your kids, while a family adding a child adds another $35-50 spent, per month, on what is basically garbage.
**Want to learn more about the economics of cloth diapers, including detailed breakdowns of waste production and water use for disposables vs. cloth? Check out Punkin Butt’s wonderful article entitled The Diaper Dilemma: The Environmental Cost of Diapers.
Cloth diapering really can be easy
Think for a minute: wouldn’t you calmly explain to a friend that he/she was crazy for using paper plates and cups for every meal, and show them that using a sink or dishwasher is actually pretty handy? We use paper plates at company picnics because they make things easier, but at home it just makes sense to eat your pasta out of a bowl, wash the bowl, and use it for your cereal the next morning.
Now shift those thoughts over to diapers and clothing: we all do laundry already, right? Does it sound easy to you to do one more load, especially if you know you’re saving money and easing your burden on the earth? I hope so, because that’s what cloth diapering is: a little more laundry, and a lot less money.
Options for cloth diapers
The internet is full of options for those who choose cloth, and this article will give you the basics, as well as referring you to a host of websites that can teach you even more.
Sharp diaper pins and cracked plastic pants are a thing of the past. Cloth diapers come in two basic types: “prefold” diapers (your basic thick rectangle of cotton, folded into diaper shape) with a waterproof velcro- or snap-closure cover, and “all-in-one” diapers (AIOs in the diapering world) that are cover and soaker in one, held on with Velcro, snaps, or elastic. Beyond cotton innards and waterproof coverings, there are many fleece and wool choices as well, especially nice for babies with skin sensitivities.
The prefold route: probably the most savings—you buy 4-8 diaper covers in your baby’s size, as well as 2-4 dozen cloth “prefolds,” depending on how often you’d like to do laundry. The diaper covers can be used more than once, until they are overly wet or soiled, and then a quick hand wash and line dry has them ready to go again in several hours. The inner prefolds that handle the bulk of the urine and waste get rinsed and soaked or tossed in your diaper bin until laundry time.
AIO: you’ll spend more up front for these, because you need enough to get you through all the diaper changes for a couple days (unless you want to do laundry every night). Most folks choosing all-in-ones will buy 2-3 dozen in each size necessary, and wash all of them every third day or so.
Washing cloth diapers—getting down to business
Everyone will develop their own system for washing diapers, and many types of all-in-one diapers or diaper covers may come with their own set of washing instructions. The very basics are a bucket-soak or soak-cycle in your washer, either with vinegar or baking soda, followed by a hot wash/cold rinse, and then drying on the line or in a hot dryer. Since your washing machine will be doing most of the work, the only time you spend is getting diapers to and from the machine, and if you hire a diaper service to do the washing, even this task is cut out, although it really isn’t that much of a hassle.
**Still skeptical? Skim through another article from Punkin Butt’s wonderful website, this one entitled “Punkin Butt Easy Wash System: Simple and effective instructions for how to wash cloth diapers”.
Other concerns: daycare, reusable wipes, etc.
Concerned about how to integrate cloth diapers into your child’s daycare routine?
Heather Sanders’ article “Cloth Diapered Children and Day Care Providers” can be found at http://www.thediaperhyena.com/daycare_clothdiapering.htm. She covers a range of issues, from introducing cloth diapering to your daycare provider to the more complex legal and health-code issues associated with diapering and daycare centers.
Reusable wipes?
Just like the washcloths we use in the shower, wipes for baby’s bottom can easily be made from cloth and used endlessly—my mother still has a pile in her
rag bag that get used in the garage, twenty-some years after the fact! Many cloth diapering websites sell their own special styles of flannel or terry reusable wipes; you can make your own or simply buy thin baby washcloths or second-hand washcloths to do the job. Count on getting about two dozen to make life easier.
Ready to get started?
The Internet will be your best friend as you collect your cloth diapering supplies. The websites listed below are only a guide to get started, as many others abound and a simple web search will turn up enough sites for you to compare prices and options. Ebay is also a great way to find new and used diaper covers and brand new prefold diapers for less money than many online stores. If you are lucky enough to live near a children’s supply store that stocks cloth diapering materials, visit them and support your local business. Many carry used diaper covers as well.
www.thediaperhyena.com
www.punkinbutt.com
www.diapersafari.com
www.babycottonbottoms.com
www.treecitydiapers.com
3. TOYS—Simplifying the Playroom
Nowhere is marketing to children more apparent than in the toy department. Aside from limiting your children’s exposure to television (most pediatricians recommend NO screen time for children under 2-3 years of age) you can exercise a certain amount of control over how many toys your child has, and what types of toys you allow into your home. Here are some things to think about:
Plastics vs. natural materials
Recent research has shown the potential risks plastics pose to our bodily health, and this risk is increased for children because their bodies are so much smaller and because they spend much more time as babies with things in their mouths. Why not eliminate the risk of toxic leachates from plastics and give your baby wooden or cloth toys? Plastics are also petroleum products of one sort or another, and so in addition to the fossil-fuel energy it took to produce the toy, the toy itself is using up precious resources, and won’t biodegrade quickly (as wood and natural-fiber cloths do) when finally thrown away.
“Characters” vs. open-ended toys
Marketing is a factor again here. I don’t assume that we can indefinitely shield our children from all toy marketing, movies, and the like. Most parents don’t even want to do this. But at an early age, you probably noticed that babies derive just as much pleasure from playing with your car keys or a wooden spoon as the action-figure they’re given to knaw on. Rather than toys that have just one use, provide your growing children with tools for creativity: blocks, puzzles, materials for forts and other creative play, and of course the great outdoors are your child’s best playthings. These toys will likely be durable as well, reducing what you end up spending and throwing away over the course of childhood. And just like clothes, many quality toys are available second-hand.
Ami Scott says
I never have understood people’s need to show off through their children with expensive toys and clothes. Perhaps it’s because my parents could never afford to do so? I still remember going to school, in obviously used clothing and listening to the kids around me boast of spending $100 on one pair of shoes, etc. That always made me feel really bad and at that time I felt it was my fault. Of course it wasn’t but all mass merchandisers directly target self-esteem issues. What I find even more disturbing is that as long as parents are willing to pay the outrageous prices, they’re not going to get better. Recently I saw a baby onsie being marketed for $100! All because it had a cute picture hand painted on the front and according to the website selling it, it was their best seller. I love to shop, but I’m also very careful. 90% of my children’s clothing is bought secondhand super cheap on Ebay and even when it isn’t I comparison-shop so I always get the best deal. I am just amazed what toys and clothes are going for and most are just full of undervalued manual labor, synthetics and toxic chemicals. The good thing about paying a little bit more for not only better quality but also something healthier is the impact on your budget. In the end, less money is being spent and less unneeded stuff is coming home. Everyday, things that I thought were safe are turning out otherwise, and me, the person who loves to go shopping has been buying less and less. Scary, huh? Anyway, I didn’t mean to blather on for so long. I guess that’s what happens when a teething nursling keeps one up until all hours. I was actually just going to recommend a good book: “Homes That Heal (and those that don’t): How Your Home Could be Harming Your Family’s Health” by Athena Thompson. If you haven’t read it yet, I think you would find it very interesting. There is a ton of info in it. I originally got it because I thought it would help with the mold issue in my house so I wasn’t expecting the plethora of facts and info that I learned but it’s now a reference that I turn to more and more.
Jennifer Lance says
Thank you for your thoughtful comment, Ami. I will have to read the book you recommended.
Nicole Clifford says
I loved this article. I cloth diaper my 7 month old son and my husband was skeptical at first but now that we haven’t spent a penny on diapers in almost 4 months he is starting to get it. (it took me a couple of months to figure out just how much we would need.) I am lucky to have a wonderful shop in town that sells everything for cloth diapering I would need. The ladies at Blueberry Baby have been so instrumental in helping me figure it all out. I recommend buying locally if you can.
Jennifer Lance says
Nicole, you are lucky to have a store that stocks cloth diapers nearby. We have one, but they are very inconsistent in stocking the covers in all the sizes. I turned to the internet for help. Using the same covers and diapers with my second child has been great.
Anonymous says
I’ve been using cloth diapers since my 14 month old daughter was born and occasionally use disposables (especially when travelling.) I’ve had quite a few people tell me that I was actually harming the planet because of the energy used to launder cloth dipers. I disagree. However, a few months ago I discovered another diaper alternative: G Diapers. They come from Australia where water conservation is an issue and using water to launder cloth diapers isn’t always an option. The diapers consist of a cloth cover with a removable, reusable nylon liner. Inside that goes a paper diaper insert made from wood pulp. Once soiled, the inserts can be flushed down the toilet. Wet inserts that aren’t soiled can be composted and break down within 30 days. By composting the wet diapers you aren’t using as much water. I like this idea since I live in sometimes drought-ridden California.
Anyone interested in these diapers can get more info from http://www.gdiapers.com.
Jennifer Lance says
I plan to post my thoughts on G Diapers soon. I think they are a good solution for some people, but I also think that when you have an efficient washing machine, it doesn’t use much water either. G Diapers would be bad for septic systems too.
Leila says
I’ve been enjoying your blog for several months now. Thank you for this post. We’ve also been doing cloth with my 7 month old daughter since she was born. After she was 2 months old, we started doing Elimination Communication (EC) and have really enjoyed leaving less of a print as well as connecting with her. The next thing is to try to encourage family and friends to stop buying her toys! I’m almost dreading her 1 year birthday for that reason.
Jennifer Lance says
I totally understand Lelia! My kids just had their birthdays. For the most part, we got some nice Plan Toys, etc.; however, there were a few plastic, commercial toys. I have learned to let go…..
Fuzzi Bunz says
I think Fuzzi Bunz are the easiest to use and care for. You can see them here: http://www.doodlebuckets.com/store/fuzzi-bunz-cloth-diapers-c-16.html
Cloth diapers are so cute too! I would never go back to sposies!