Any parent knows raising children is stressful. From newborns to teenagers, it doesn’t matter the age, parenting involves stress, worry, and anxiety. Talk shows, such as Dr. Phil (who recently featured our very own Jessica Gottlieb) would go out of business if raising children was a walk in the park.
Of course, parenting isn’t always so stressful, but there are times my kids know how to push my buttons and raise my blood pressure, that’s why a new study finding “parenthood is associated with lower blood pressure, particularly so among women” is surprising.
Conducted at Brigham Young University (BYU) and published in Annals of Behavioral Medicine, this new study found that not only do diet and exercise lower blood pressure, but social factors, like parenting, have an effect too. BYU psychologist Julianne Holt-Lunstad, as reported in Medical News Today, explains:
While caring for children may include daily hassles, deriving a sense of meaning and purpose from life’s stress has been shown to be associated with better health outcomes…This doesn’t mean the more kids you have, the better your blood pressure. The findings are simply tied to parenthood, no matter the number of children or employment status.
198 adults participated in the study by wearing portable blood pressure monitors 24 hours a day. The results showed that “parents scored 4.5 points lower than non-parents in systolic blood pressure (the top number) and 3 points lower than non-parents in diastolic blood pressure.” Mothers had even lower numbers on average with a “12-point difference in systolic blood pressure and a 7-point difference in diastolic blood pressure”.
Perhaps it is that loving hug in the morning, or the delighted face when you pick your child up from school that keeps you health. Perhaps there’s the feeling that your parenting stress is not selfish but out of greater concern for your offspring. Whatever the reason, next time you want to explode from parenting pressures, remember, your blood pressure is really low 🙂
Heather says
Wow, if that’s true, then I’d have been on blood pressure medication by now since my BP would be that much higher than if I hadn’t had kids…
I’m currently pre-hypertensive. I have a very healthy diet, could use more exercise but I’m not overweight. No ‘risk factors’ except for a family history. My BP ranges from 135/85 on a good day, to 165/110 on other day. Most often, it’s right around 150/90. It’s been creeping up for the past several years. I’ve tried all the natural treatments with no effects. Once it’s consistently above 150/90, I’ll likely have to go on medication.
I also had pre-pre-eclampsia when pg with my daughter. At 38 weeks, my BP spiked and we decided to induce, losing the hoped-for home waterbirth. It went right back down to normal — 130/80 at that time — as soon as she was born. But has been creeping back up since.
Since it’s hereditary in my case, thus handed down from parent to child, it means that every one who has it inherited it from a PARENT who had children.
I dunno. It’s interesting, but I think it’s too small a sample group to make any clear judgements yet. Assuming equal distributions of the different genders and parent/non-parents, it means there were only about 50 fathers, 50 mothers, 50 non-parent men and 50 non-parent women. It’s hard to get statistical significance out of 50 people, there are too many other complicating factors that might explain variations.
Chrystal @ Happy Mothering says
Very interesting. I’ve always had low blood pressure, so I’m not sure that being a parent has affected it. I don’t think it would be healthy for mine to be any lower 🙂
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Wow,lower blood pressure by raising Kids?? is it really?
Jane Lewis says
Nice read. Hypertension is not called ‘the silent killer’ for nothing… so many young people have died with heart failure because of an unnoticed hypertension..